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Our First Open-Source Project

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Okay guys, I want to try something new and cool today. Let’s see if the ItStartsWith.Us community can conceive, build and launch a project to make a difference in people’s lives, using only our own people and resources, all in the next month or so.

I’m collecting specific project ideas all this week, and would love for all you guys to send over ONE that you think we could rock out! This request is very open-ended – I want to hear what you all have to say about where you think we should go with this. No idea is too big or too small, so let ‘em fly.

You can email your ideas to nate @ itstartswith.us over the next few days, and by next Wednesday I’ll publish the top three project suggestions for the team to vote on.

Can’t wait to hear what you guys think! Any questions, please ask them in the comments below. Let’s do this.

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Admit You Were Wrong Recap

This week’s mission was an especially tough one, but one worth doing. Simple…but not easy.

Admit you were wrong. You know you made a mistake and it hurt someone, and you haven’t acknowledged it yet. Do so, and ask forgiveness.

Yeah. This is a tough one, isn’t it? Possibly the hardest one we’ve ever done here at ISWU. It involves swallowing your pride, sacrificing your own desires, and putting others first. It’s not easy to do. I understand, because I just had to do this yesterday. If you want to know what I’m talking about, you can read the story.

Doing this tiny little act for an area in your own life this week, however, has huge potential rewards. It can mend relationships. It can set you back on the right path, if you’ve been going down the wrong one. It can change your perspective. And that’s another way to change your part of the world, right?

There’s probably a few folks you know who you need to admit you’re wrong to, right?

So what did the team at It Starts With Us do this week?

I'm sorry

I thought this one was a really good idea. Most of the time, doing nice things for people feels amazing, but apologies are something which are a lot harder to give because, let’s be honest, apologising can sometimes feel HORRIBLE. An apology is one of the most selfless things we can do because it can make the other person feel much better at the expense of our own pride.

Recently, I lied to my best friend. To cut a very long story short, she had lent me some money, and I was unable to pay her back when I said I would. Rather than tell her, I just tried to keep putting it off and putting it off. Eventually she discovered how dire my circumstances were, but she was devastated that I had felt the need to lie and was afraid that I thought she was some sort of ogre that I couldn’t approach. She and I came to an agreement about a realistic time for me to pay her back, but I knew I had hurt her feelings and until tonight wasn’t sure what to do about it.

I felt like the mission was a sign! I called her and I explained that it was my stupid pride that had stopped me being honest with her. I said I was too afraid to admit how bad things were, that it was wrong of me and that I was sorry and willing to do whatever to regain her trust. She appreciated the apology, so much so that it made her cry (which set me off too ). Now I feel like our relationship is back on track, and I no longer have to live with the squirmy guilty feeling that I had hurt her and done nothing about it.

I recommend this mission to everyone…it seems daunting but it really does make such a difference.

This is going to be a really hard mission.. I hate apologizing (probably because of my pride), but I’ve found that if I’ve done something wrong, saying sorry may not fix it, but it makes me feel a little better getting it out in the open. Often lately, my best friend and I seem to have gotten so different that we’re constantly on guard and thinking of everything we say before we say it. Even then, we tend to get into arguments. Standing back, looking at the big picture, and seeing that the argument is stupid helps me to realize that we’re both wrong, but if one of us simply wounds our pride enough to admit it, alot of things would be forgiven. So. Yeah.

I found this one hard. I’ve been needing to apologise to my mum for a while, but I kept putting it off and justifying it to myself. Now I’ve done it, and things are so much better already- it was worth it

This mission was possibly the most challenging one I’ve had yet. After reading it, I sat there for the best part of two hours reflecting on what’s happened this year and I found that there was someone I just had to speak to. I’m generally a confident person but this mission really did manage to shake me up a treat. Not because of admitting I was in the wrong but more so the subject matter.

Forgive me for not sharing the details. It’s incredibly personal and the conversation lasted several hours but the important thing is the outcome was good and the mission is successfully accomplished =]

Nate, thank you for this one. Perfectly timed as ever.

What did YOU do this week?

Amazing! Another great week for the folks participating in It Starts With Us. Join us today and share your success stories!

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On Cool People


I haven’t watched this video, so I probably ramble on a bit and repeat myself . . . I’m a bit tired right now. But still, it’s heartfelt. :) Links I mention can be found below.

Owen, we will be talking sometime soon, my friend.

This is the video that led me to find OhDoctah: Social Media Douchebag PSA. I watched the whole 11-minute thing, and was hooked.

Here’s the post with the cool video about the human body: The Miracle is You

Goodnight, all.

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The Top 10 Non-Profit SXSW Panels (2011)

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I read through every submission in the “Non-Profit” category and pulled out all the ones I gave a thumbs-up and would be interested in attending. There turned out to be 10 of them, so I thought I’d share them with you in a blog post. Granted, these are my Top 10, but if you’re interested in the non-profit track, these panels may be a good place to start. Here they are, in no particular order (except a little bit because I threw my favorites to the top):

  1. Nonprofits and Free Agents in A Networked World
    Organizer: Beth Kanter, Co-Author Networked Nonprofit and CEO of Zoetica
    Why It’ll Be Good: “We will explore how nonprofits can unleash the power of social good by transitioning from stand-alone institutions to networks energized by abundant resources in their ecosystem. In order to do this, they need to work with free agents, hyper-connected individuals who are passionate about social change, but don’t work within institutional walls. Free agents use social-media channels like Facebook and Twitter and can create social movements in the palms of their hands”

    Beth Kanter is an established expert with a great track record, and this sounds like a very interesting take on new ways for non-profits to work with talented people who care.

  2. Turning Facebook Followers Into Change Agents
    Organizer: Jessica Kirkwood, Hands On Network/Points of Light Institute
    Why It’ll Be Good: “100,000 followers, and you still want more. What are they good for? Online numbers don’t always equate offline results. How do you build an online community that makes a serious impact for your cause? Nonprofit social communications wizards share examples and tips to get your fans mobilized for action.”

    If I had to pick just one session to attend, it would be this one. Partially because I want to meet Jessica in real life after phone/twitter conversations, but mostly because she’s gonna bring some good hands-on information to help us engage our volunteers.

  3. Doh! Lessons from Nonprofit Social Media Screw-ups
    Organizer: Matt Stewart, ACE :: Alliance for Climate Education
    Why It’ll Be Good: “Nonprofits are often team-centric, mission-driven organizations—which can lead to exuberant group cheerleading in the face of mediocrity. In this session we’ll throw those rosy-eyed glasses onto the bonfire and talk (nicely) about notable social media campaigns that didn’t deliver.”

    Best first line ever. I was sold as soon as I read it. Not to mention the fact that it’s always good practice to learn from your mistakes (or the mistakes of others).

  4. A Conversation About Social Change Through Social Media
    Organizer: Mark Horvath, InvisiblePeople.tv
    Why It’ll Be Good: “Social media is not about me – it’s about WE. We can influence real change in our world. This Core Conversation is an open forum in which we share our experiences, strengths, failures, and victories. We all are the presenters in this session. It’s the perfect place to make new friends, develop strategies, and get answers to help tame this new frontier of communication.”

    Not much more to say here. Mark walks the talk, and I loves me an open forum. I think this one’ll be fun.

  5. Your Mobile Non-Profit: A Play in Three Acts
    Organizer: Rob Baker, Kabimba Media
    Why It’ll Be Good: “Join us and discover the purpose for the mobile Web for your organization as you follow the day-in-the- life of a mobile user who cares about causes. After the show, we’ll have a Q&A with our heroine and other heroes of the mobile nonprofit world.”

    Mobile is where it’s at, people. This panel will provide good examples of how best to use this technology with your non-profit.

  6. Making Action Easy, UX Sweet Spot for Nonprofits
    Organizer: Amanda Lehner, Ad Council
    Why It’ll Be Good: “There is a sweet spot (or threshold) in user experience where incentive meets ease of use to make goal conversions more probable. How can nonprofits and government agencies prioritize their goals, edit user experience, heighten incentive and create ease of use to get results?”

    Lots of meat in this one. May be data overload, but you’re sure to pull out a bunch of good nuggets for your organization.

  7. Just ‘Cause: Can Technology Make Brand Irrelevant?
    Organizer: Danielle Brigida, National Wildlife Federation
    Why It’ll Be Good: “When you text that donation on your smartphone, are you moved by the cause, or because the American Red Cross, an organization with a globally recognizable brand and history, told you to? In the absence of brand power and the media coverage they command, can technology help even the playing field for important causes/organizations? Join this heated debate as a pack of really smart people share their techniques, tools and tactics for becoming better social media storytellers and digital citizens.”

    Interesting discussion here, including corporate sponsorship, social media promotion and fatigue, etc.

  8. Doing Good with Less: Open-source Altruism
    Organizer: Joshua To, BRUTE LABS
    Why It’ll Be Good: “No budget, part-time, and big impact. Is that really possible? Throw in some clever design and use of technology, irreverence for rules, and crazy ideas, and you will realize that this is not your usual non-profit. Joshua To, founder of BRUTE LABS, will be giving attendees a crash course in the BRUTE method of envisioning, launching and scaling creative projects that take on the pressing social issues around us.”

    No budget, part-time, and big impact – sounds like the ItStartsWith.Us story. I would love to see what Joshua has done with his project and his open-source concept.

  9. How Many Rungs? Social Change & the Engagement Ladder
    Organizer: Robert Rosenthal, VolunteerMatch
    Why It’ll Be Good: ” If new technologies are adding more rungs to a ladder of engagement in the form of sharing, viral promotions, micro-volunteering, and micro-giving, what’s at the top and the bottom? Join in a discussion with technologists from four bleeding edge social change Web services that are demonstrating what real engagement looks like — in all its many flavors.”

    Lots of talk about different models for engagement, volunteering and business – should be interesting.

  10. Nonprofit Social Media Jam Session
    Organizer: Frank Barry, Blackbaud
    Why It’ll Be Good: “Hear about the latest social innovation initiatives underway at leading technology companies like Twitter, Facebook, YouTube, and Foursquare, and learn how the technology industry is contributing to social media for social good.”

    Frank comes highly recommended, and hearing about how all the big platforms are contributing / can be used for social good should be fun and informative.

There you have it, folks – I hope a few of these make it through so I can participate in some good discussions.

I should also let you know that I don’t have a panel in the non-profit track, but I do have one in the “Community / Online Community” category (which actually does relate to non-profits building a community around their cause). It’s called Forget Corporate Buzzwords – Go Change the World, and I’ll be talking about building and managing a powerful, engaged and effective community (online or offline) by providing a simple vision and letting your members surprise you with their creativity, passion, and energy.

You can touch hearts and change lives with your group in just 15 minutes a week – without spending a dime. It’s personal, fun, effective, it makes a difference, and it’s REAL. If you want to learn more, you can check it out here.

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Use Your Influence

Just a small reminder from the ItStartsWith.Us team to use your influence to make a difference for someone you know today. Always remember that small actions can have a big impact – it’s easier than you think to change a life.

Two things with this video:

1) If you want to participate and share with the rest of us, click through to watch it on YouTube, and feel free to add in your comments/actions/ideas/videos there.

2) Please ignore the fact that I look super serious and am reading off a card or something. I am actually neither, but got tired of my eyes flitting about while I talked, so decided to stare straight at the camera while speaking. I don’t think it worked very well. :) Will do better next time.

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