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Our First Love Drop

Love DropAs most of you know, ItStartsWith.Us likes to spin off side projects every year. And this year I’m really excited to announce the launch of another project designed to utilize the power of micro-giving to change lives: Love Drop.

From the site:

“Love Drop is a micro-giving network of people who unite as a community
to help one person or family a month. By subscribing to the team for as
low as $1, we make it easy for our members to change lives in a fun and
tangible way. Each month Love Drop delivers a unique combination of
unexpected financial gifts, personal encouragement and the support of
local and online communities.”

This one is gonna be a lot of fun, guys. Seriously, how amazing will it be to travel around the country helping out people who are going through tough times, but are still finding ways to give back to others? And the point is not to just give money, but to get our entire community involved in giving anything they want that could improve our recipients’ lives. The creativity on this one will be off the charts – I can’t wait to see what we all come up with.

This month we’re working to help Jill, a single mom in Chicago who just lost everything in a house fire and is now homeless . . . for the second time. But wait ’til you see her attitude and the ways she continues to reach out to help others. Head on over to LoveDrop.us and check it out!

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5 Things I Know For Sure

 

 

sadness1. There’s a lot of pain in this world. A lot.

2. I can’t fix it, and neither can you.

3. We still have to try.

4. Most of the time we will fail.

5. We have to try again.

 

 

 

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Top Ten Recession-Proof Holiday Gifts

In our consumer culture, the holiday season is often marked by a shopping frenzy as millions of people around the world venture to stores in search of gifts to buy for family and friends. This year, in a changing economic climate, ItStartsWith.Us has compiled a recession-friendly holiday gift guide of our own. Here are a few of the most timeless and precious gifts to share with family, friends and strangers.

Although never on sale nor even available at retail stores, these items are certain to make lasting impressions.

Photo Credit: Luis Agrerich

Photo Credit: Luis Agrerich

10. Time
 Try slowing down instead of hurrying off to the next destination. Giving generously of time to others can mean letting go of the numbers on the clock and being present in the moment. Give time by staying a while longer in conversations or eagerly lending a helping hand with unplanned requests.

9. Gratitude

There’s nothing like the genuine sincerity of a thank you to spread cheer and goodwill. Words and gestures of appreciation never go out of style.

 

Photo Credit: Lz.

Photo Credit: Lz.

8. A Second Chance

It was plain wrong. You know it and they know it. Nevertheless, everyone makes mistakes. This season, how about a do over? An opportunity to right a wrong is a powerful act of forgiveness.

7. A Smile

We’re not talking about the artificial, two second, discount smile. Instead, go for the 100-watt grin that doesn’t care about crooked, straight or missing teeth. A heartwarming smile that reaches into the soul can create a returned smile of equal delight.

Photo Credit: ganesha.isis

Photo Credit: ganesha.isis

6. A Hug
 Goes perfect with a smile. Five, ten and 15 second hello and goodbye versions are recommended.

5. Laughter

Wrapped in a joke, funny story or goofy expression, the gift of laughter can fill a room and break even the most awkward of silences in an instant.

4. Encouragement

Convincing ourselves that everything is really going to be okay in the midst of difficult times can be hard.  Hearing it from someone else helps us get through the rough patches of life.

3. Patience

In a fast paced world, an overflow of patience allows for a soothing calmness guaranteed to amaze and inspire others.

Photo Credit: Tiree

Photo Credit: Tiree

2. An Open Mind

Suspending judgment to whole-heartedly considering another perspective creates a whole new world of possibilities. Transform a relationship or two by really understanding another’s life experiences and viewpoint.

1. Love

For the biggest gift-givers of this holiday season and year round, the gift of Love includes the listed items above and more than the mind can ever conceive. With love, go for the big wow factor to create a world of pleasant surprises and infinite joy.

Photo credits:

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Chris Guillebeau: Changing The World By Challenging Authority

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The cool guy in the pic above is Chris

Not many people know this, but when I first started planning out the ItStartsWith.Us project two years ago, I was focusing on the “Change the World” idea, and time after time I kept seeing Chris Guillebeau’s name pop up. As soon as I read his stuff, I knew he was someone special – someone who spends his life doing what he loves and making a difference for others at the same time. Chris is one of the best role models out there not only for me, but for so many of us in the ISWU group. I’m proud to call him my friend, and thankful that he’s giving us some of his time today. Enjoy.

1. What’s the most valuable small thing someone has done for you this year . . . a tiny action that ended up making a big difference for you?
So many things! This has been a year of gratitude. For example:

Stephanie Zito took my book to Mongolia and got a picture of it on a camel… then she took it to Beijing for a photo shoot in the Forbidden City. aonc-cover

Etsuko Tsukagoshi sent cookies for my book launch even though we’ve only met once.

J.D. Roth came to Chicago with me for the launch of the Empire Building Kit.

I met Jonathan Fields in Pittsburgh to speak at TedX (he was very supportive of me even though his talk was better).

The list could go on and on; every day I encounter small-but-significant acts of kindness that make a big impact on me.

1b. And vice versa – can you tell us a story about a small action you did for someone else that had a bigger than expected outcome?

A fun thing happened this week, actually. When a couple of friends put together a great business offer, I decided to endorse it with an affiliate link (I don’t usually do that) but instead of keeping the money, I’d give my proceeds to our Ethiopia project. I hoped it would do fairly well, but I wasn’t exactly sure how people would respond. My readers ended up raising more than $24,000 in three days — I called it The $24,213 Blog Post.

2. You’ve been all over the world. Which places do you feel that the people honestly and genuinely care about one another, and go out of their way to show kindness to others in ways both large and small?

Most of the world is fairly hospitable — the places that aren’t are the exceptions. In almost every part of the world, plenty of people have welcomed me and shown kindness, even when I don’t speak the language or don’t even have a good reason for being there. A few standouts in the hospitality department include Macedonia, Chile, and pretty much all of sub-saharan Africa.

3. Every week, we have Assignment Missions for our members. Could you recommend a small, simple assignment that every single one of our members can do right now, no matter where they are, to change the world?

First of all, let me say that I love the whole #lovedrop idea — so that’s obviously a great path to follow. But from my side, I’d add –

Sit down with a piece of paper and answer these two questions:

1) What do you really want to get out of life? (Most people don’t honestly know.)

2) What can you offer the world that no one else can? (Most of us spend our time focusing internally rather than externally; this question — and your whole project — is all about flipping that around a little.)

Then, resolve to pursue the answers — right now, wherever you are in the world. If everyone did that, I think the world would be a better place.

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Comments Wanted: What Would You Do?

It’s been a busy week for ISWU with the  Love Drop launch.  And as usual, it’s been a non-stop week for me as well with life.

We’re putting some finishing touches on more new blog content launching next week.  In the meantime, today is a wild card day as I’m figuring out what to write at this very moment. 

Looking around in our members forum section for ideas, I lucked up and quickly came across a recent forum discussion started by Jopinon.  He posted a couple of powerful questions that I’m pondering right now:

How would you make someone smile or feel cared for with one requisite- you can’t speak or vocalize anything.

- what would you do to a friend or family member?
- what would you do to a total stranger?

This is a cool question, as I’ve been walking around the city for the pass few days, intentionally talking with strangers more than usual.  However, after hearing for most of my life that I have a nice one, I realize that the gift I can give to everyone is my smile.

So, for family, friends and strangers I would of course give a geniune smile in an effort to get a smile back.

An easy one perhaps, but the little things can make a big difference.

So, I’m posing Jopinion’s question to everyone reading this blog post: What Would You Do?

This is of course, not an official mission, but I would encourage everyone to think of the respose and DO it as well. Or just leave a comment in the section below.

 P.S. Thanks Jopinion for the starting the discussion and RiceballAttack for keeping it moving :)

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